Sunday, May 20, 2012

What We've Been Up To

Ryan and I have been so busy recently that I find little time to get online from a few seconds here or there. We can definitely tell that spring has sprung and summer is nearing since our lives have become jammed packed with things going on.

First, lets just get this out of the way. The temperatures have been in the 80s or 90s nearly every day. The other day on my way to work it was already 79; which means the air has been going full force in our house. We had a day where it was windy and probably barely made it to 80. We considered this day to be "cold". Since we had very little rain during the rainy months (which have already passed) Ryan suspects there will be lots of wild fires this summer. We happened to just miss the rainy season last year, but we still saw 3 or 4 and one was quite a large one that ruined lots of property in Tehachapi.

Ryan started school back up, which is really exciting and will be good for his career in the AF (and out if he chooses). He spent a night in L.A. 2 weeks ago to take 2 CLEP tests. He passed both, so he after this semester he'll have his CCAF and he'll go right into his Bachelors. I'm honestly not sure what the name of his degree will be, but something for bio.
 
Our weekends have been spent at BBQs, a 1st birthday party and running errands. This past weekend was a whirlwind...one I'll get into later.

We spent Mother's Day lounging around and spending time in Palmdale. After seeing a commercial for Red Robin we ended up there for lunch and doing a little shopping. We skyped and talked with our parents.

This past weekend started with leaving work early to spend the afternoon in labor and delivery. I can't say that I was excited and I honestly did everything to not have to go. My doctors didn't agree and they sent me with a free ticket. Everything is fine and I have a dr.'s appointment on Tuesday (my regularly scheduled appointment). Thursday morning I started having a lot of pulling, stretching and cramping. I've had this before, but it always goes away. It just seemed to get worse and whenever I walked it would get real bad. So I figured I'd just spend the night lounging around and if it goes worse again I'd call my doctor. My friend told me that it was better to call and talk to the nurse, so I did. She thought maybe I had a bladder infection and to go to L&D. Since I'm stubborn, I asked if I could just be seen by my PCM so I called and made an appointment for Friday. On Friday I went and she said everything looked fine with my lab work, but to still go to L&D. I wasn't feeling horrible on Friday and I don't even remember the feelings I was feeling the day before. I begged and pleaded (who wants to be the girl who is constantly going to L&D), but she still told me I needed to go. So, I went into Ryan's office, told him I needed a ride and off we went. Knowing nothing was wrong, we made plans to meet up with a friend for dinner at Buffalo Wild Wings. We spent about 3.5 hours at L&D before they finally released me. On the bright side, we got to hear Dom and he was moving all over the place.

Saturday I had a girls day planned and we went shopping, had lunch at Olive Garden, ran some errands and went to see What To Expect When You're Expecting. It was a great day out, but I was glad to get home and relax.
Last night I started making this wreath from pinterest. It's almost finished, I just need to glue on my buttons.


Have any of you read Fifty Shades of Grey? I honestly don't know how I feel about these books. I have to say the second one is WAY better than the first. The author does not leave any room for imagination and I wasn't sure I was going to be able to complete the 1st book. I'm sure I'll read the last one while on vacation.


We have a busy week preparing to head home. We're excited, but there's so much going on that I don't think we'll be able to relax until we're sitting on the plane. We've never left Calli and Rocky for so long and we're a little nervous. Thankfully, our pet sitter is also a great friend and we trust they'll be in great hands!

If you made it this far, that's great! For all our families and friends in Michigan, we will be seeing you shortly! 

Friday, May 11, 2012

Happy Military Spouse Appreciation Day

I've said this before, but most of the time I don't really feel like Ryan is the in the military. Our lives are like many of yours, with a few exceptions. However, today is a day to appreciate military spouses; if you are one:
Thank you for supporting, serving alongside and loving your husband.

Military Wife

Lots of moving...
Moving...
Moving...
Moving far from home...
Moving two cars, three kids and one dog...all riding with HER of course.
Moving sofas to basements because they won't go in THIS house; Moving curtains that won't fit; moving jobs and certifications and professional development hours.
Moving away from friends;
Moving toward new friends;
Moving her most important luggage: her trunk full of memories

Often waiting...
Waiting...
Waiting...
Waiting for housing.
Waiting For orders.
Waiting for deployments.
Waiting for phone calls.
Waiting for reunions.
Waiting for the new curtains to arrive.
Waiting for him to come home,
For dinner...AGAIN!

They call her 'Military Dependent",
But she knows better: She is fiercly In-Dependent.

She can balance a check book;
Handle the yard work;
Fix a noisy toilet;
Bury the family pet...

She is intimately familiar with drywall achors and toggle bolts.
She can file taxes;
Sell a house;
Buy a car;
Or set up a move...
...all with ONE Power of Attorney

She welcomes neighbors that don't welcome her.
She reinvents her career with every PCS;
Locates a house in the desert, the Artic, or the deep south.
And learns to call them all 'home'.
She MAKES them all home.

Military Wives are somewhat hasty...
They leap into:
Decorating.
Leadership.
Volunteering.
Career Alternatives.
Churches.
And friendships.
They don't have 15 years to get to know people.
Their roots are short, but flexible.
They plant annuals for themselves and perennials for those who come after them.

Military wives quickly learn to value each other:
They connect over coffee,
Rely on the spouse network,
Accpt offers of friendship and favors.
Record addresses in pencil...

Military wives have a common bond:
The Military Wife has a husband unlike other husbands; his commitment is unique.
He doesn't have a 'JOB'
He has a 'MISSION' that he can't just decide to quit...
He's on-call for his country 24/7.
But for her, he's the most unreliable guy in town!
His language is foreign
TDY
PCS
OPR
SOS
ACC
BDU
ACU
BAR
CIB
TAD
and so, a military wife is a translator for her family and his.
She is the long-distance link to keep them informed; the glue that holds them together.

A military wife has her moments:
She wants to wring his neck;
Dye his uniform pink;
Refuse to move to Siberia
But she pulls herself together.
Give her a few days,
A travel brochure,
A long hot bath,
A pledge to the flag,
A wedding picutre,
And she-goes.
She packs.
She moves.
She follows.

Why?
What for?
How come?
You may think it is because she has lost her mind.
But actually it is because she has lost her heart.
It was stolen from her by a man,
Who puts duty first,
Who longs to deploy,
Who salutes the flag,
And whose boots in the doorway remind her that s long as he is her Military Husband, she will remain his military wife.
AND would have it no other way.

-Author Unknown.


Thursday, May 3, 2012

Our 1st Year

Ryan and I have officially lived in California for an entire year. It hasn't always been easy, but we're trying to make the most of our time here. We honestly are counting the days Here are 12 fun things we've been able to do this past year (in no particular order to favorites):

1. The 1st Carrier Classic on the USS Carls Vinson on Veteran's Day.
2. My parents coming to visit twice. We were able to see Santa Monica, the Sequoia National Park and around our little area we call home.
3. We went to the American Country Awards in Las Vegas.
4. My Aunt and Uncle coming to stay with us.
5. Making a trip across the country. We drove through Michigan, Indiana, Illinois, Iowa (1st stop), Nebraska, Colorado (2nd Stop; we also were able to watch the footage of the President announcing Bin Laden was killed), Utah, Arizona, Nevada (3rd stop) and California in a matter of 3.5 days with 2 vehicles, 2 dogs and the 2 of us.

6. We found out we were expecting our first baby, that he was a boy and started planning for the big arrival.
7. Ryan was able to go to the Rose Bowl. He had a great day!
8. We hosted our 1st Thanksgiving with friends. Celebrated our 1st Christmas together since being married, our 2nd Christmas beig married and our 1st away from family. Our 1st anniversary in October. Ryan's 1st anniversary in the USAF in November. 4th of July at a rodeo instead of on the beach in Pentwater. And many other holidays.
9. We went to the Dodgers game and to Koreatown. One of the hottest days in LA (I'm pretty sure-ha)
 
10. We spent a couple of days fishing. Once in Tehachapi and once at Lake Isabella.
11. We moved into our house and have been making it a home every since.
12. We made a quick trip home in June for our vow renewal and it was one of our FAVORITE days to date. Thank you AGAIN to everyone who made our day so memorable and fun.
Not everything that we've done has been overly exciting, but we have been able to do things we never would have had we been somewhere else. We're thankful for our opportunities here and for all the fun adventures year 2 will bring!